Every so often a client will ask “May I have a hug?”
It’s perfectly all right to ask for a hug and I am more than happy to give you one. A hug is a form of appreciation. Some clients will ask for one after receiving a massage when they have been in pain for months.
I have never been offended nor uncomfortable when someone has asked for a hug. I do not believe that it will lead to transference or a inappropriate relationship. A hug is a form of compassion in my opinion. Being compassionate is only human. I feel we all need to give and receive more compassion. As humans we need touch that is soothing and comforting. Touch decreases stress and helps to lower blood pressure. By hugging it does release chemicals such as Oxytocin and endorphin’s that can assist in healing the body faster.
Best of all hugs are free and feel good when you receive one. It makes your day better. You are more than welcome to ask for one.
Suzan Walker, LMT
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